Page 46 of The Backup Plan
Cameron
Want to know how I know? Because that’s what my friend Zack did for me on Saturday. My center. I apologized to him, and he said that game was on all of us.
Cory
Then you hugged.
Cameron
And then we hugged.
Cory
And then you thought about how every play makes that game, and any play executed better or worse could change the outcome. Check out number four on the list for a good example.
Cameron
Yeah, I didn’t think about that for about forty-eight hours.
Cory
In the locker room, whether people come at you apologizing, blaming you, or they’re just sad, it’s okay to accept a share of accountability for an individual thing. That was my bad throw. My fumble, my pick.
Ethan
But no single play is the reason for the score.
Cory
You rise and fall as a team. Individuals called out for doing well will lift others. Individuals who hear you say they had a bad day will not forget it.
Number seven on the list is a good example of this balance, and he doesn’t say “adversity” once.
Cameron
I have an irrational hatred of the word “adversity” since I got this job. Second place is “battle.”
Hayden
Is there a bingo card? There should be a bingo card.
Cameron
Jordan said for a loss it was only “I” and “We,” not “He,” “You,” or “They.”
Cory
Jordan was a good leader, and so are you. And you, Dale, and Hayden, and whoever else is still on while Ethan and I rant. Leading through and after a loss can be brutal.
Hayden
You’ve only done it once, Thatch. Literally once, last year. You were undefeated even in high school.
Cory
Well, I might have to do it this weekend. I plan to take a twenty-one point lead by the half so I can let Rutledge take over for a bit, but if he throws a pick while I’m sitting there with ice on my ribs, they’ll have to tie me to the bench.
Ethan